Soft and Romantic Farmhouse Christmas Home Tour

We’re sharing our soft and romantic farmhouse Christmas home tour today, so come on in!

Almost every morning this holiday season I’ve gotten up between 4 and 5am to have quiet time with a steaming cup of Santa’s White Christmas coffee and to take in the twinkling lights on the Christmas tree. 

Without fail, every single time, I feel all giddy inside thinking about how truly different our lives are this year than last. 

Before the holiday season even began, S and I decided to make gratitude our #1 goal because neither of us wanted to lose sight of all the gifts we’ve had received this year as she recovered from a major fall.

We chose to create a soft and romantic farmhouse Christmas home tour by keeping our decorating on the front porch, in the entry, the dining room, and the breakfast nook simple, save for the Christmas tree surprise.  That way, we could spend more time soaking in every ounce of Christmas cheer the season has to offer.

I know how hard it can be when you’re going through something incredibly difficult to not only see the beauty happening around you but also to believe hope can be found around every corner.

Especially, at Christmas time.

Because the truth is when you’re going through something difficult, you’re basically just doing your best to get through it all in one piece.

I can literally remember wondering if I should even bother decorating for Christmas last year.  Between the surgery, the numerous doctors’ appointments, the daily medical care and trying to balance life – I didn’t know if I could add more one thing to my plate.

Thankfully, my Mom talked some sense into me. And while it was not the Christmas I had originally imagined, we still found plenty to celebrate.

A week before Christmas and shortly after S’s surgery, she had a BAD case of cabin fever.  S is pretty no nonsense and in the 15 years I’ve known her I can only think of a hand full of times she’s actually cried. 

But she was in so much pain from the surgery and having to leave both legs at a 90-degree angle which made traveling anywhere without a wheelchair van super difficult that she was just over it.

It was almost dark when she looked at me and said, “This is a huge ask.  I know it is.  I don’t even know how we’re going to pull it off. But is there any way you could take me to see the Christmas lights?”

So, here’s the thing about that request…. 

  • At first glance, I realized neither one of our cars allowed S to keep both legs at a 90-degree angle.
  • I’m not a great driver.
  • Crowds put my anxiety in overdrive.
  • I barely had enough strength to get the wheelchair in the car it was so heavy, much less navigate the rest of the gear we needed to make it all work.
  • It was freezing outside.
  • I had no idea if it was even safe to take her out in public.

I’ll freely admit, I hesitated for longer than I probably should have.  I looked at the twinkling lights on the Christmas tree and then back at her pleading eyes and agreed to face my fears and give it a go.

It took several tries to get S into the car.  In fact, there is a spot in the front yard that has still not recovered from that night ?   

We used almost all the pillows we had in the house to create a little barrier around S’s trunk and elevated legs.

Then we s-l-o-w-l-y headed to the place we could see the most Christmas lights at one time – the zoo.

I’m not even going to lie, it was BANANAS!

Every time someone got too close to her legs, I jumped in front of them like a ninja. I was so worried S was going to get sick, I made her bundle up like we lived in Chicago instead of Florida.  About halfway through the zoo, she started breaking out from all the layers which had inadvertently created a heat rash.  Then we passed a kid having a total melt down while a frantic Mom tried to calm her with a candy cane which somehow went air born and flew across the bench and landed in S’s lap.

It was a total mess.

But it wound up to be one of the most memorable nights of the entire year.

Since we were already out and about, I decided to drive S to Cracker Barrel for some comfort food.  I had burned almost every meal we ate that week.  So, I figured since we’re celebrating Christmas cheer, we might as well spring for meatloaf and mashed potatoes too. 

By the time we got in the door I must have looked like a frazzled mother with bags of baby supplies and a newborn because the staff of Cracker Barrel totally took over.  They found a table that could accommodate S’s wheelchair and leg situation and made sure we had whatever we needed while we ate.

Just being able to relax for that hour felt like the biggest gift. 

On our way out, we passed an older couple that nearly broke me wide open.  They both looked to be in their late 80s. 

The wife had oxygen tubes draping from her nose with a large portable tank next to her chair.  Her husband was seated across the table wearing faded overalls and a thick flannel jacket.

With trembling hands, he split open a biscuit then lightly buttered it and placed it on his wife’s plate.  I’m sure it was something they had done a thousand times before.

But that night, that seemingly mundane gesture taught me a lesson in kindness I’ve never forgotten.

The wife caught the edge of my jacket as we passed by their table.  I felt her tug and stopped to wish them both a Merry Christmas thinking it might have been an accident.

She looked at me with deep blue sparkling eyes and said, “Things will get better, honey, I promise.”

By this time, I could barely thank her because I had a huge lump in my throat.  We made our way to the check out, quietly paid for their dinner and drove home in complete silence.

A few miles from home, lost in my own thoughts, I heard S say, “Thank you for taking me to see the Christmas lights.  I know you don’t like driving or crowds all that much.  I know you worried some little kid was going to hit both of my legs and we’re going to have to go through this all over again. I know you’re frustrated you’ve burnt everything from hot dogs to tea bags this week.   I know you could be at the lodge skiing with your family right now.  I know this is not easy, so thank you for helping me through this. Thank you for standing beside me.”

And then she said, “Even though I’m in the back seat, I know you’re probably crying right now so you don’t have to say anything back, it’s ok, I just wanted you to know.”

We all have benchmark moments in our lives…. a painful divorce, a financial setback, the death of a loved one, the loss of a job or of a home or of our health, or a relationship or even the temporary loss of the use of our legs. 

These benchmark moments are valley moments where the lessons we’re learning are so painful we just want to get them over with already, so we try to rush through them.

But there is a message is in the mess.

Then there are the mountain top benchmark moments. 

Those are the moments we can clearly remember deciding to reclaim our power.  To put down the donuts and start running again, to stop allowing people to treat us in a way that doesn’t honor us. 

The moments we let our most treasured resources and gifts reflect our values rather than reflect the latest trends on social media because we’re trying to keep up.

Those are the moments we feel amazing.

I know there is a lot of pressure to capture the magic of the holidays in just a few short weeks.  But really, we have the power to carry the magic of Christmas into every situation we face, even when it feels difficult, no matter what the season.

As we inch closer to the big day, my hope is that you’ll remember all the gifts you’ve been given this year, both big and small. 

And that you’ll find a way to pass the magic of Christmas along to someone who least expects it but greatly needs it.

After all, you never know just how impactful a random act of kindness can really be this holiday season.

We hope you’ve enjoyed our soft and romantic farmhouse Christmas home tour! 

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Until next time, I’ll see you on Instagram, Facebook and Pinterest.

Many blessings,


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  1. Sneaked a peek at this wonderful post whilst at work. Reduced me to a puddle. I am forever grateful for tender mercies & I appreciate your words today. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for being you CoCo. Merry Christmas to you & yours.

    1. Every comment from you is a treasure, Anne, thank you so much! I can’t even tell you how much I appreciate your sweet support and thoughtful words. You lift me up all the time 🙂 Sending you lots of hugs and love for a joy filled Christmas season. May your heart be filled with Christmas magic and more blessings than you can imagine, CoCo

  2. CoCo, this is the sweetest and most beautiful post. You and S have created a wonderful, restful Christmas home. I hope you have all the happiness you deserve this season and in 2020!!

    Stacey 🙂

    1. Such a sweet kind thoughtful thing to say, Stacey, thank you! We’ve definitely taken every moment possible to be grateful for how different our lives are this year than last. I can remember the day S stood up for the first time and thinking to myself that no matter what happened in the month of Decemeber Christmas had definitely come early for us 🙂 I hope your Christmas and holiday season is richly blessed and your 2020 holds lots of love, laughter and plenty of adventure. Big hugs, CoCo

  3. Marilyn S. says:

    What a wonderful post – it truly got me thinkin’! .we are given gifts all year ….. Big ones that seem little at the time . I’ll be falling asleep tonight thinking of all those gifts , even though I’ve never seen them as gifts before- thanks for reminding me.

    1. So sweet of you to say, Marilyn, thank you! We’ve been taking moments to remember all the gifts we’ve been given this year too and it’s been so nice. The big and little gifts can definitely be easy to forget especially during the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. We’re thankful for the extra time to slow down and soak it all in and I know you are too. Hope your week is fabulous, CoCo

  4. I am new to your blog, but have been enjoying all your posts! You seem to have my taste and think like I do! Oh….I used to have goats, ducks, geese, peacocks, a rooster, and now a rabbit!
    This post made me cry! I have been through a lot, all my immediate family is gone, Mom, Dad and my Brother. I took care of all of them, plus other relatives. I am a nurse, but it was still very stressful and draining. I know what a bad year is, this one has been one of those! My husband’s health has been bad off and on.. We are in our late fifties. What you quietly did at Cracker Barrel was so touching! I have done that as well for two military men eating dinner. I find the more you do for others the more good will come your way. I wish you and S the best Christmas and a wonderful New Year!

    1. Oh Shelly, you’re making me all teary this morning! Such a sweet and thought filled comment, thank you. I’m so excited to have you here and to be able to share in your journey too. Caregiving, even under the best of circumstances, is definitely not for the faint of heart that is for sure. There are parts of it that are exhausting and yet other parts that are joy filled. Nursing is one of the most noble professions anyone can undertake. We would have been lost without the tender touch and kindess from the nurses that helped us navigate S’s surgery and post op care. We still talk about how much we appreciate them! I’m sorry to hear about your husband’s health and for the loss of your family too. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you navigate the holiday season. May your 2020 be richly blessed and hold more love and goodness than you can imagine, CoCo

  5. CoCo
    Oh I loved every detail. I’ve said many times this year I wish I could add pink to my Christmas decor but I’d have to sell everything to do so. Lol. I’ll have to just enjoy the tour of your stunningly gorgeous home! I’ll share with my followers on Sunday.

    1. I tell ya, Rachel, once you get started with pink it is hard to quit 🙌 Thankfully, it’s been on my love list for years so I’ve had lots of time to create little collections in my closet and around the house. Thanks so much for sharing the home tour. It’s been a few years but it’s still one of my favorites. Big hugs and thank yous, CoCo

  6. A beautiful post as always. When you write these posts, they always make a tear fall. You are one of my favorite story tellers! Thanks for always sharing your beautiful heart.

    1. That’s such a sweet and kind thing to say, Cindy, thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Hope your holiday season is filled with magical things, CoCo

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